@XX: 21, huh? So, like, do you enjoy long walks on the beach?
Edit: Wait, I'm pretty sure that was the right e-mail, but I didn't get anything, so:
[email protected]
@CH: Wait, THAT I get. One of my better friends is like that. "I would bone her, But I don't have any romantic feelings for her."
I don't wanna sound like a "dudebro" by saying that. I genuinely consider her a friend, not just eye candy or whatever. I'm trying to imagine what it'd be like if I were in the same situation as you, and it's kinda tough, so your qualms and inability to really describe it isn't bad. Well, I guess it is on your end, but yeah.
Since it's more of a friend thing, I really think you should "Blunt Words"/"Real Talk" it out. I guess you'll have to explain to her that you're uncomfortable talking about some topics while others are alright, and since I don't know her, I don't know how you'd do that in your situation.
There IS a way to keep up verbal communication without getting into some of the stuff you don't wanna talk about. I talk to my two best friends about completely different things one-on-one, but the amount of communication is the same and the "closeness" is the same, too. I know it might be hard to change the content of your friendship while keeping the connection the same, but it looks like that's what has to happen (unless you wanna just get used to it, but I doubt that since you're asking about changing it).